My superwoman of the month is Wonder Woman, I'm not too crazy about her but I love the concept of her. She is this strong, independent super-being that can hold her own. I like the fact that the people behind the making of Wonder Woman made her feminine but a hard-ass. First they give her super-strength, she can carry or lift twice her size. Then they threw in some crazy things like flight, endurance, speed and they even gave her this random healing power. But you know what the big cherry on top is, her lasso of truth. This is what makes Wonder Woman a wonder! Like if you don't remember one super thing about Wonder Woman, the one thing or the only thing would be her super cool lasso of truth.
One thing about Wonder Woman that threw me off was her alter ego Princess Diana. I guess she was like the Princess of the Amazons, I have no clue. But it was so random because in most of the comic they don't even acknowledge the fact until something huge happened. But anywho, this is my superwoman of the month!
So many girls always wanna be with the latest trend, wanna wear what all the celebrities wear and be "with it." People don't understand there is a difference between fashionista and fashion victim. I will admit I do pay attention to the latest trends and fashions and pick and choose which ones suit my personality and personal style but I don't go to the extend of following every single trend. I remember when Rihanna first cut her hair everyone cut theirs; when she dyed her hair that stupid "look at me!" hair of course girls followed suit.
Its like no matter how stupid the trends the fashion victims of the world follow no questions asked. Same thing with Amber Rose, the broad came from nowhere and she rocked a buzz-cut so ditto girls followed.
Being a fashion victim eliminates your chance of being original or an individual in any shape or form. It also shows you are a mindless idiot that follows any stupid thing celebrities or other people do. Fashion victims especially annoy me because they have to be on every trend by the coattails and think the world must be on it like them. It's funny how people watch celebrities so closely it's as if they want to become them.
Like I said in previous blogs I am a comic book fiend! I love the supernatural that why I am so infatuated with Greek heroes and American comic book heroes. My favorite superwoman is Bat-girl for one reason: she's a bad ass! The first Bat-girl was my favorite (Barbara Gordon) because she set the bar so high for future Bat-girls. Like check this kid out, she doesn't have superpowers and she is still a force to be reckoned with. Sure if you like cookie-cutter, prissy little girls you'll totally dig Super-girl but Bat-girl has essence. She's human we can relate to her and we love the whole underdog thing she's got going for her. Whether you agree or not, I would enjoy a Batman comic more than a Superman comic simply because of the realistic factor and the fact Batman is more entertaining to watch.
Bat-girl is spunky and she has this cool personality. She is very sarcastic and kinda takes herself a little too seriously. But then again she only saves Gotham City from inevitable destruction everyday (no biggy). She is also very brave and she has proven on several occasions she can play with the big boys and hold her own. Not only is she very capable she's fun to watch.
I also love Bat-girl girl because she and everything else in the comic world is so weird and eerie and dark (hence the name of the town Gotham City). Its like everything is so spooky and dark but I love it. Needless to say I dig it! Like you can't expect the expected from her and its cool! If I was half as cool and slick as Bat-girl I'd be pretty stoked. To my regular readers notice how Bat-girl is still up (every month I honor a super heroine) that how much I love Bat-girl.
As you might have noticed, every month I honor a female superhero. First there was Supergirl then there was Rouge and now Batgirl. If you would like to see your favorite super woman as my background just comment with your favorite female superhuman! Or introduce me to more super women that aren't too mainstream and I'll probably write a blog in their honor.
A while back I wrote a blog about settling (Settling: Why Girls Settle and Why it's a Problem 2012) and now this blog is an extension of that one. As you might be able to tell I didn't add "part 2" or add part to the title simply because it's not a multiple part series. It is simply piggy backing off the first so I guess you can say that the first blog was the intro leading up to this one.
But any who, as you read in my first blog settling is a bad thing in more ways than one. First, you are more vulnerable to get hurt or played. Secondly, sometimes settling shows you don't have self-appreciation for yourself. Lastly, settling for less than you deserve waste your time and causes unnecessary turmoil. There are ways to avoid making the choice of settling.
For starters, make a list; I know it sounds stupid and cheesy but its better to visually see what you think you want and thinking hard about what you need. It is also a good idea to do this with a friend but if you are the type that needs silence to concentrate then go for it. Make sure that all the attributes and traits are achievable and realistic. So, don't write on your list "wants someone that can fly" we all know that is impossible. But on a more serious note don't write things like "someone that never gets angry at all"; to be honest people get angry some more frequent than others. That won't be a realistic trait because people show anger in different ways and sometimes you wouldn't even know they are anger unless they told you. Things like that are not good example of what could go on your list. Remember my list from the last blog? That is an example (maybe not a perfect one but it's a start) some of the things on my list were just preferences. On my list I had tall, I would like a man that is a minimum of 5'6 and a max of 6'4 but I won't not date a guy that's 5'5 with a great personality. I also had "prefer Caucasian men" yes I am more attracted to white men but that doesn't mean I'll never date a black man or a hispanic man. Its' good to have a preference but don't let that preference determine your entire decision.
After creating that list, stick to it. Like on my list the very first item was articulate. For me, someone that knows how to talk correcting and pronounce words in the correct tense is a must and it's rather sexy. So, if some guy off the break, calls me "shorty" or "sweethawt" (that is the phonetic way some guys pronounce "sweetheart"), I have to immediately shut down and just give you the evil eye. That is part of the reason I don't really pursued or desired a boy from around my way. Most of them are obnoxious and immature. That should be the same persona you should have, that list is supposed to help you make the right decisions. A very good one I have on my list is "smart", ladies if you cannot hold a constructive, intelligent conversation with them they aren't worth your time. But, if you're into that kinda thing when your men are dumber than a brick; go for it.
Lastly and the most important, ask God for guidance. We are only human and evidently are bound to fuck up, so why not put your trust in someone who is perfect and knows what is right for you. Prayer and trust is the key to finding your soulmate. With guidance and understanding from the holy spirit there is no telling what God could bless you with. He could take that list of yours and add things you didn't even think you needed or multiply the things you do want sevenfold.
Now, I am not the expert matchmaker in Maryland or a married counselor but I know a little something about people and relationships. I am pretty sure you follow this criteria things might start looking up. Now I am not saying you do so and get marriage in 6 weeks but you'll stop settling for less and be happier.
Intro of this blog
http://aubrey-m-thoughts.blogspot.com/2012/05/settling-why-girls-settle-and-why-it.html
I was in love..no captivated with Sara Bareilles since Love Song. For people that don't know the true meaning of that song, she basically shot a middle finger to her record label. They wanted her to write more songs about love and she responded with that love. "...I'm not gonna write you a love song/ 'cause you asked for it 'cause it/ 'cause you need one you see/ I'm not gonna write you a love song/ 'cause you tell me it's make or breaking this/ if you're on your way/I'm not gonna write you to
stay/All you have is leaving/I'm gonna need a better reason/ to write you a love song today..." Powerful words, words spoken by a true bad ass. That's when I fell in love.
She is bold, spunky and brass balls; qualities I admire in a person. She is not only a singer but a song writer and she has a brilliant mind. She covered a very mainstream Beyonce song "Single Ladies" (video is on my Twitter @_JustJillie) it was a great take on the Beyonce hit. She added this corky, light melody and a bouncy beat. She gave the song a funky alternative twisted. This artist is truly daring and inventive and that's why I love Sara Bareilles.
I don't know why I attract so many goregous girls that are way out of my league. These girls are not only exotic but fucking crazy! This one Hawaiian girl (yes another Hawaiian) she started talking to me on this social network. She was pretty close to me so I entertained her for a little. The very first thing that come out of my mouth was "I have a boyfriend" she said that was fine she wanted to be friends. She was a lesbian of course and I thought she was alright. We hung out a couple weeks and she was mad cool.
After a while she got obsessive, she'd call me 4 in the morning, text me 30 times while I was at work and I think she was catching feelings. One afternoon she told me she liked me a lot and she wanted to be with me. I assured her that would never happen (most because I had a boyfriend and she was crazy).
There on out she kept calling and texting like a crazy person. Leaving weird text messages and "dropping by" randomly. She was crazy! Like she would say things like she loved me and she had to have me. At first I didn't think too much of it but then it became freaky. She'd call me crying asking why I don't want her and don't get me wrong she was pretty..she was just fucking crazy!
The reason I didn't want her was because I had a boyfriend that I love and she was crazy as fuck. I have enough problems as it is without her in my life so, I don't think she's worth the hassle. So, moral of the story sometimes something that looks good ain't good for you.
